Lets do some updates

Source: Friends of Redding Eagles

During our last wind storm, a stick blew into the nest and cracked an egg, so now there are only 2 eggs. It's always upsetting when that happens - for the Liberty and Guardian, they just trust.  







The almond tree is looking beautiful. My husband would take photos and text them to me while I was sick. 







I wasn't able to spend much time with Ed and Harry - my husband pretty much doing it all. They were always waiting for him at the front door and then following him around. 



Updates


I'm feeling about 44% better. The rest of me is slightly nauseous at times - still in a brain fog and coughing but not like before. I'm not sleeping all the time like I was.  I'm taking the rest of the week off from all group activities. At least I am seeing improvement. 

The husband has been coughing - and sneezing since yesterday. 

Navy and his wife are on their way back - in fact, they should be home anytime now. 

I noticed that the Google sign-in is different. I checked it out and apparently, they have been rolling out the new look over the last couple of months with all of it now done as of March 4. It's really not that big of a change. I only noticed because the print seemed bigger. 

Another change that is coming. I heard that Dollar Tree is raising their prices AGAIN. They will be all over the place in prices. Seems they are having an identity crisis and want to be more like Dollar General. They are installing price scanners in the store. 

It's been raining a lot - what more can I say about that? Snow in the mountains = more water for California. 



Good News -

The husband did our taxes and we are getting back $151 from the State of California and $841 from the Feds.  We're pleased. 



Thanks for all the Birthday wishes. 



As soon as I publish this, I will probably remember something else, only to forget it again. I am wrestling with a bad mood - As for my birthday, I'm over it. I'm thinking, that maybe this was a glimpse of what the next decade is going to look like.  (okay I'm wrestling with negative thinking, too) I get this way when I have been sick for longer than a couple of days, I tend to go through a mini depression. 








Lastly, today would have been my sister's 65th birthday. Her name was Donna. I miss her terribly even though in our adult years, we grew apart thanks to our mother's meddling. We were just finding our way back to each other, when she dropped dead, unexpectedly at the age of 56. She would have never liked being 65 or even older. Most of her friends were Nina's friends. She had no old friends that were her age or older. I always felt "less than" when around her because I was getting older and she refused. 

She loved life her way - she loved the men - and the men loved her. She was married four times and I believe this one would have made it.  

I had always wished we would grow old together and it was a great disappointment when she passed. Because of her age denial, she refused to get medical attention - she followed a lot of remedies. 

I always knew she was a drinker. Every time we talked on the phone, she was drunk. She took our mother's suicide very hard and every anniversary, she would call me, drunk and crying, and big sister had to make everything okay. It was after she passed that we learned she died of cirrhosis of the liver. Her daughter said, she believed she knew something was wrong and just wanted to forget about it. She tended to live in a fantasy world. 

Oh, how I wish things could have been different. 

Now I am the only one left from my birth family. 

Donna, I miss you and I loved you. Why? 








 

21 comments:

  1. I am so sorry about Donna! How sad and frustrating! Your almond tree is gorgeous; do you eat the almonds? What a freak accident with the eagles! It's great that you're doing better!

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  2. That's so sad about the eagle egg.
    Glad you're having some improvement in how you're feeling. I hope your hubby doesn't get too sick.
    Your sister was beautiful. I'm sorry she had such a hard life and passed too quickly.

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    1. We're both doing much better. He's just behind me by a couple more days.

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  3. Well first, Happy Birthday. Second, I hope you both start feeling better soon. Our trees are just starting to grow buds. Love that photo of the almond tree.

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  4. I'm sorry you've been so sick, Debby, and glad to hear you're feeling a better. Thank you for sharing your story about your sister. She looks lovely and full of life in this picture. It's sad what happened to her, and she was only in her 50's. Your almond tree is beautiful! No signs of Spring yet, as you saw on my post, it's been raining and we got some more snow. But I appreciate you stopping by to visit, even when you were sick. I didn't realize lavender was your favorite color. ; ) Good news about your taxes too. Take care and get well.

    ~Sheri

    **I LOVE browsing through Dollar General. We have one up here, and I go in there at least every two weeks. Love all the holiday stuff they have.

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    1. I find those head cold really knock me out. But as fast as it does, it does seem to pass after about 3-4 days.
      Yes Donna was very happy in that photo of her. It is sad and at times when I think of it, I get mad as well. It just never should have happened. Then I just have to hand it over to God -

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  5. What a heart breaking story about Donna.
    The tree is beautiful against the pretty blue sky.
    Hope your feeling back to normal soon. Certainly no fun when an illness drags on.

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    1. I'm good to go now...just waiting on the husband to feel as good as me.

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  6. I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better. It sounds like your sister had a disease which took her life way too soon.

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  7. I am so sorry that you've been so sick, and I hope you are feeling better now. And your sister's story is so sad. My heart goes out to you as you remember her, and try to think of the good memories. Sending you (((hugs))) and prayers for peace and comfort. Blessings to you my friend.

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    1. The good memories are more when we were kids and there are many to savor.

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  8. So sorry that you lost your sister in such a way. I have a couple of sister-in-laws that don't want to age either.

    Poor eagles to lose an egg in that manner. Hopefully the others hatch this year.

    God bless.

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    1. Heck, who really wants to age? But it happens so we deal with it.

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  9. Sorry to hear you are still not 100%
    lso sorry to read about eagles egg
    Love that tree

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    1. The tree is pretty and will supply us with some yummy almonds.

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  10. I'm glad you are starting to feel better now Being sick gets harder and harder to recover from as we get older. Bummer about the eagle egg. We got a tax refund this year too. Always better than having to pay! I'm sorry about your sister.

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    1. The last few years since the husband retired, we've broke even. I think this is the first. We always get about $100 back from the state but never from the Feds.

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  11. Hi, sending a BIG HUG. The story about your sister is sad. I would like to sit down with a cup of tea and cookies and learn more about her and you. She looks beautiful in the photo.
    Hope you feel better soon. Sending prayers for 100% recovery.
    Love, Carla

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    1. I'll never turn down a hug! Thanks.
      I'm feeling better so prayers are working.

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